** Winning **

First of all I would like to apologize for taking a two week not-deserved break.  I have been infuriatingly busy over that past couple of days and I didn't find a chance to blog until today.

This post is going to be about winning and what it means to us.  Winning is defined as "gaining, resulting in, or relating to victory in a contest or competition".  We all win at some point in our live and we all also lose.  Winning is often associated with happiness, when it is possible to be a joyful loser.  I find that when I lose at something I am often frustrated of angry immediately afterwards, but in time I usually realize that I didn't deserve to win of forget about the matter altogether.  When I win,  I become conceited and pompous.   Then feel the need to keep winning, and when I eventually lose I am crushed.  This happens to all of us, and very few people have taught themselves how to let go of it.

In all honesty it really doesn't matter most of the time.  We expect ourselves to be the best at everything, which is impossible.  A perfect person has never set foot on Earth, and they never will.  We all have to learn to move past our flaws, and keep going when we fail.

Losing is making us better and improving us in ways that we can't even begin to fathom.  It makes us who we are, and we can't change what has happened.   You have to learn to accept losing as a part of life.  Winning is not what life is about.  At the end of the day you are the same; win or lose.